Sunday night is the night where the girls hang out. We watch tv or movies or play games, and two of the three of us knit or crochet to pass the time while watching television. Tonight there is no new episode of Grey’s Anatomy or Private Practice, so we decided to catch up one of the girls with the Big Bang Theory. She is through the first season, and we’re now into season two.
More than anything else, I love Sheldon Cooper. There are just things he says to be a part of the conversation that crack me up. His complete and total lack of comprehension of social norms is a hoot, and then there is the new go-to word for fun times.
Going back to season two now. Have a great night!
This morning I got up before dawn (which if you know me is pretty darn impressive) to be at church by 7 and at the mall by 720. The kids from the choir I assist in were singing the national anthem and providing entertainment for the SCAN (Stop Child Abuse Now) 5k that occurs out by the mall. We have 115 in the choir, and since this was optional were hoping that 40 or so showed up.
We had that, plus a few more! The parents were so enthusiastic to take photos that they couldn’t get out of the way of the runners that the runners could watch, but that’s okay. It made them look good. We (meaning the kids) sang for about an hour, doing very very well in the FREEZING cold. Parents cheered and passed out fliers
But the best part was this little girl in a pink coat. She kept bringing her grandmother over to see the kids sing, and eventually the grandmother let her walk over on her own. She was copying the movements for some of the songs, and after about ten minutes and walked so close that she was IN the group. Best part of all? The last song the kids sang has no movements, so we just had the director up front. And this little girl thought they were the movements so she was doing them as best as she could, right along with the leader.
I didn’t skip posting last night! I just came home and the power was out due to the crazy winds. I went to bed early because I had to get up at 530 AM which, for me, is a darn near impossibility!
Project Runway is one of my favorite reality television shows. Yes, it’s starting to cycle. Yes, it’s all starting to run together. Yes, it’s formulaic. But it’s still impressive to see the amazing talent (and incredible delusion) that the contestants have. The new follow-up show, Models of the Runway, has been fun as well. It’s been interesting to see the girls that never talked before and how they are going through the competition.
Last season there was a model that was visited by her son. I remember thinking that there was no way on earth that those hips had borne a child. This woman–a statuesque 5’10”, beautiful complexion, skeleton with skin–was just so stinkin’ skinny, I could not imagine her pregnant. The picture I have in my head is of a woman toppling over because the weight of the pumpkin sitting on her front was pulling her over.
That being said, this past month was New York Fashion Week. Models galore with the opportunity to walk the catwalk for genius designers, some working as many as three shows a day. One of the more famous models recently is the lovely 21-year-old Coco Rocha. At 120 pounds, she is, in my opinion, underweight for her 5’10” frame. Yet the people in New York have been denying her work because her size 4 frame is considered too fat for fashion.
The average American woman is at least a size 12. The average runway model has gained weight and moved to a size zero from a size double zero. What about this is normal? What happened to the Christie Brinkley’s and the Cindy Crawfords of old, the women with curves? What happened to HEALTHY looking women? Did the Kate Moss era change the perspective of every human? Do people really think that skeletal hipbones are healthy and normal?
I’m not advocating a nation of obese people. I’m not saying we all need to have Krispy Kreme for three meals every day. I am just asking what the perception of normal is in an industry that is supposed to appeal to the common woman.
I had half a post put together for tonight with Olympic moments, but didn’t get to finish it. So I guess that will have to wait until after the closing ceremonies. The reason it didn’t get finished is tonight, after choir, I had an impromptu meeting that took an hour and then I had to drive to Midlothian and work on my parents virus-infected computer for two hours. I am now exhausted.
While I am thrilled that my mother/step-father and grandmother have email and love to use it, I think that someone needs to invent the fisher-price equivalent of computers for seniors. Every thing that pops up, they click on. Every thing they see, they install. Which means I have to spend hours trying to clean up the system. Tonight I didn’t even finish. After over two hours I said sayonara and took off to come home, because I am beat!
You ever have a morning when you wake up and you really don’t want to get out of bed because you’re afraid the day isn’t going to get better?
That was me this morning. I didn’t fall asleep until 5am, so I was exhausted when I woke up at 10. But then surprise! I got asked to lunch by a friend I hadn’t seen in a few months and we had a delightful few hours checking up. Then I went to the gym and swam not one but TWO miles. Yay me. (Side note: I realize it’s Purim, but it really is just plain EVIL to be selling Hamantaschen in the main hall. Pastries in the gym? SO difficult to pass by!) Then I met a former coworker and good friend for drinks, with plans to pick up another friend for our weekly TV night later.
But then the phone rang. It was my someone who rarely calls me. And as I had seen I had one missed call from him earlier this evening, I answered and asked if I could call back since I was still with my friend, but there was something in his voice that made me pause. Something was not right. Something was very, very wrong. And he wanted me on the phone even if he couldn’t talk about it. So I made my hasty apologies to my very understanding friend and spent the next hour on the phone. My heart is now breaking for him, as I don’t know what I can do to help other than be here, and he is out of town.
I still picked up my friend, and still went to TV night (yay Lost!) but my head wasn’t there so much as it was with him. And yes, it was a roller coaster day. I guess at the end of the day all I can say is I love you, and if you need to call again I’m here.
Tonight was my life group meeting. It’s a group of girls that meets every other Monday night, and lately we’ve been discussing Esther. It started about sixteen months ago, and I’ve been going for about fourteen. Through last year and the summer we had about 12 on roster and maybe 6-8 active. Once the fall started we had a growth explosion. God truly blessed our group and our numbers just rocketed. We had as many as 18-20 crammed into that living room, and maybe 8-10 more that would come sporadically. Lately we’ve leveled out around 12-14 each week, and I’m so thankful that I can call these women my friends and my closest confidants. I was telling one of them tonight–I don’t know what I would have done the last year-plus without having this group to turn to. It’s been YEARS since I’ve had a group of women that I had this much in common with, and even not in common with, but we all love Jesus and come together to grow through God. For that matter, I’ve NEVER had a group like this, for in high school and college it wasn’t the same. And I wouldn’t change what I have now for the world.
Unfortunately, I’m not the one that gets to choose if we change or not. Tonight the decision was announced that the group is splitting in half. It is something I dreaded. I knew it was coming, I expected it, but I didn’t want to see it because I don’t want to lose the connection with whatever girls are going to be in the other group. We have to do it, I understand that. The church has ‘closed’ our group for five months now because we cannot accept more, yet there are still women looking to join groups and to fill a need. By splitting, we are now able to accommodate them and ‘reopen’. I know that change is good, and that growth is good, but selfishly I do not want to split for the aforementioned reason.
We are going to try to have a social once a month minimum so that we can stay close. And who knows, if membership dwindles then we will reform, but as for now we’ll make the best of it and see how things go. I’m excited about the opportunity, and hope for the best with both sets of women, though I will miss having J as my leader!!!