Disclaimer: Blah blah blah. Same stuff I’ve said the last two days.
Only one more day after this, I promise!
- Have enough food. Doesn’t have to be steak for everyone, a buffet is fine. Just have enough.
- Have appropriate entertainment. It can be a reception in the church fellowship hall where all are mingling, and that’s fine. A karaoke machine instead of a band is a hard sell, especially when the bride limits the singers to the bridal party only. (There were only so many times I could hear Redneck Woman.) A band is fine, a DJ is fine. If your guests are mostly over the age of 60, it is a waste of money to have a dance floor. A string quartet of high school students makes a nice background accompaniment.
- Take care of rituals early so that your extended guests can leave. Don’t wait three hours to cut the cake, toss the bouquet, etc.
- The best man makes a speech. Maybe the maid of honor. Not every member of the bridal party and every family member present.
- Beware the camera-on-every-table trick. If you do this, you’ll get a ton of photos of the first 90 minutes of the reception and then the film will be gone. It’s a great idea in theory. One of the best ways I saw it handled was to have the caterers put cameras on a singular table in shifts every hour or so, so that new cameras would be available for other photos.
- Be nice to your bartender. There may not be a tip jar displayed due to company rules, but that doesn’t mean that they won’t take cash. Also remember that an open bar does not mean that the bartenders are getting tipped.
- Know when to wrap things up. Make sure that you have a time table. Your caterers have been working at least two, sometimes three hours longer than you have been there, and usually they have another hour or so after the last guest leaves. Not to mention you will also have to pay a fine if you go over in time for your venue rental.
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